I
was recently on tumblr trying to avoid doing homework, (per usual) when I saw a
post someone I followed had reblogged. In this post fans of certain celebrities
were discussing while Miley Cyrus (who has been dating the same guy for four
years) is considered a slut while Taylor Swift (a known serial dater) is loved
and regarded as a lady by many. Upon reading this post I realized that I too
had similar beliefs. This led me to question my definition of what it means to
me a slut and I realized I, like many other people, do not necessarily view
girls as sluts but consider certain behavior as not proper or inappropriate. When
analyzing the situation of Taylor Swift versus Miley Cyrus I began to compose a
list of reasons behind people’s perceptions of both. Taylor Swift presents herself
as being a wholesome young lady who is very proper. She does not wear skin
tight or skimpy clothing, does not curse, and has never done anything illegal.
She is not photographed going to clubs and she does not post pictures of
herself alongside alcoholic beverages. In my opinion, the way she behaves
results in her being viewed as America’s sweetheart. Miley Cyrus, on the other
hand, wears skin tight and often revealing clothing, swears, and posts
inappropriate pictures (one that comes to mind is one where she is eating a
penis cake that she got for her fiancées birthday). These actions are seen as a
direct reflection of who she is as a person and because these actions can be
viewed as being negative by many she is given the label of being a slut. This
is because the word slut has evolved and no longer simply implies a woman who
is sexually promiscuous. In this day and age a person can be deemed a slut if
their actions are viewed as being inappropriate or in poor taste. A person’s
character is just as important as a girl’s sexual behavior. I do not think that
this is fair and I personally do not agree with calling a girl a slut under any
circumstance. I will admit, however, that a way a person behaves or presents
themselves does affect how people perceive them to be even if that assumption is
wrong.
Miley does present herself in a more promiscuous fashion and that is where the public gets that idea. I think some people see Taylor's "serial dating" similar to the relationships of middle schoolers- there are many but nothing ever happens in them. They are innocent.
ReplyDeleteWhen you're a grown woman, sexy clothes shouldn't always determine if you're a slut. Some women just like to tastefully show off their curves and there shouldn't be anything wrong with that(unless you're like past 30). Sluttiness should more so be based on your actions. It's sad that people consider Miley a slut strictly because of the way she dresses.
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