Television shows like “Toddlers
& Tiaras” on TLC depict over-sexualized images of children. This show is
basically about girls up to 12-years-old who dress up like they are in their
twenties and compete to see who is “the most beautiful”. Little girls watching
at home can quickly be manipulated to think that the only ways they will be
accepted in society is if they act like divas, if makeup is caked on their
faces and if their midriffs are showing.
If things like this are being
shown in the media, it is up to parents to decide whether or not they want
their daughters to be exposed to it. If they do allow their daughters to watch,
it is their responsibility to reassure them that they do not need to act or
look older to be beautiful. However, it seems like a lot of parents aren’t
having that talk with their daughters, because I have seen one too many little
girls dressed inappropriately lately.
Once a girl turns fourteen she is
eligible for a job, meaning she can afford to buy some of her own clothes. She
is already under the impression that “less is better”, and once she has her own
money, she can continue to dress skimpy.
When kids and teens wear sexy
clothes, it’s not just distracting, it is dangerous as well. When they are
giving off the illusion that they are older, older males will be attracted to
them. Then, these girls can easily lie about their age and get themselves into serious
trouble. But who do we blame?
The media… for being a bad
influence?
Parents… for not putting their
foot down?
Or retailers… for making these
clothes in the first place?
I have noticed this as well. Over the summer I was offered a job interview for abercrombie (though I'm not sure why) while I was walking to one of the parking lots. I went in the store and it was the kids store. They have clothes that you describe so I agree with you. I'm not ure how or when this started. I don't remember seeing things like this when I was a kid.
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